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2012 Dream Wedding: The Announcement

After winning the 2012 Dream Wedding during the Outer Banks Wedding Weekend, Shana returned to share the surprise with Brad.

Shana, Tell us how you told Brad and What was his reaction?  I wanted to tell him in person so I could see his reaction and he was speechless. It took some convincing before he believed me.  The Moms and I walked into the condo we were staying in that weekend and I showed him the board of what was included in the package. He and the Dads had been looking at places for guests to stay while the women were at the expo. I think they all thought we were pulling one over on them, but they eventually believed us.

Brad, What did you think when Shana told you she had won the Dream Wedding?  I was a little frightened at first because she was screaming at me and I couldn’t decipher exactly what she was saying. After she was able to catch her breath and I was able to understand that she had won the Dream Wedding Package, I was ecstatic and felt so blessed. I think Shana was more excited after winning the Dream Wedding Package than she was after I proposed. I’m so grateful for the opportunity and I am looking forward to marrying Shana.

Shana, Describe your experience meeting David Tutera. What was it like? What were some tips that he gave you in your private consultation? The entire experience in the auditorium that day was completely surreal. I felt like I was dreaming. I really just thought I was there to see David Tutera and watch a lucky bride win this prize. Right before he pulled my name, I got really nervous, so when he stumbled over my name I just knew it was me. People have always had trouble saying my name correctly. It’s pronounced ‘shay-nuh’. I walked up on stage and just couldn’t believe I was standing there. I was just taking it all in.

David Tutera is exactly how you would expect him to be from his show. He is so sweet and genuine. I jokingly asked him if he’d come to the wedding, as if he doesn’t have enough weddings to go to.

He really gave me a lot of great advice. He emphasized that we need to tell our story, and incorporate who we are in the details. That is really important to me.

I told him that time with our loved ones is really important to us. I’ve always heard about how fast the wedding day goes and I really want it to last. He suggested that Brad and I see each other before the ceremony. He said that he always has brides that are set on having their groom see them for the first time as they walk down the aisle. He said that the “moment” the bride is looking for isn’t always a moment because of the nerves and all the people there watching. By seeing each other before the ceremony it will give us time to do all of our pictures so that we can get right to the reception after the ceremony and spend more time with our loved ones.

He also gave me advice on special ceremony details, music suggestions and lighting tips. I’m so thankful that he took the time to meet with me. I know he didn’t have to give me a consultation, so I think it says a lot about him that he would take the time to do that. It was a special bonus that I am grateful for.



Emily & Sven, New York, NY May 6, 2011

Ceremony:  Whalehead Club, Corolla

Reception:  Twiddy & Co., Realtors - Mark Twain Home

Coordinator:  The Proper Setting, LLC

Photographer:  Neil GT Photography

Cake: Great Cakes! of the Outer Banks

Caterer & Bar:  Coastal Provisions

Ceremony Musicians:  Club Violin

Florals/Decor:  Bells & Whistles

Rentals:  Metro Rentals

Guest Accommodations:  Twiddy & Co., Hampton Inn & Suites

Beauty & Spa:  Hair Designers

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Carrie & Jim, Virginia, October 11, 2011

Ceremony: Marshes Lighthouse, Manteo

Reception: 108 Budleigh

Photographer:  Brooke Mayo Photography

Coordinator:  A Premiere Events

Cake:  Great Cakes! of the Outer Banks

Caterer:  1587 Catering

Ceremony Musicians:  Club Violin

Florals & Decor:  DIY Renee Landry

Guest Accommodations:  Tranquil House Inn

 

All Photos by Brooke Mayo Photography.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



2012 Dream Wedding: The Proposal

Shana and Brad, the 2012 Dream Wedding couple, will celebrate their wedding in Manteo on May 3, 2012.   The couple met in Tennessee and after dating for 4 1/2 years, Brad proposed to Shana on the beach.  With their love of the ocean, Shana and Brad chose to celebrate their love on the Outer Banks and won the 2012 Dream Wedding, valued at $45,000, during the Outer Banks Wedding Weekend in January.

As the wedding plans unfold, we want to share the Dream Wedding couple’s story.

Shana, tell us about Brad.  “Brad is a great story teller, which captured my interest initially.  He’s got a light-hearted nature, so he makes me laugh and keeps me entertained, especially with his Michael Jackson dance moves.  He has a way of getting me to lighten up and to not take life so seriously.  He’s honest, strong and caring.  Brad lightens my load and encourages me to push myself and I love that about him.  We have so much fun together and it never gets old.  He’s my best friend and my perfect balance.”

Brad, tell us about Shana and share the story of how you proposed.  “Shana has too many great qualities to list, but some of those qualities that are very attractive to me are how genuine and caring she is.  Shana always gives people the benefit of the doubt and is a very optimistic person.  She’s a dreamer and has a very creative side.  Shana has strong family and moral values, and is both confident and humble.  She lets me be me, which is a lot to handle at times, and my family and friends absolutely love her and love being around her.  Shana’s a very easy-going person.”

“Shana and I had dated for several years and I never questioned whether I could spend the rest of my life with her. We literally did everything together and she has always been the backbone of our relationship, and also my best friend.  After a year of dating, I accepted a position in Maryland which required me to relocate. The intention had always been for Shana to relocate as well, once I got settled and once she was able to find gainful employment. That time apart was difficult and it further validated the importance of having her not only in my life, but also without distance between us. I remember that being a time in our relationship when I was able to quantify how much she really meant to me and from then on it wasn’t so much about if I would propose, but more so about when.

Every year, we spend Thanksgiving with her family in North Carolina and then head to Ocean Isle Beach to relax at her parent’s beach condo. Last Thanksgiving was slightly different in the sense that Shana’s extended family, along with my parents and sister were also coming to the beach. The Friday morning after Thanksgiving, on an unseasonably warm day, we went for a stroll down the beach as we often did. Once we reached a beautiful area where the ocean meets the inlet waterway, I got down on bended knee, said a few things and popped the question.”

After the proposal, Shana attended the 2012 Outer Banks Wedding Weekend with her mother and future mother-in-law.  The weekend was highlighted with the announcement by WE TV’s My Fair Wedding host, David Tutera that Shana had won the Dream Wedding.  Check back as Shana tells us how she told Brad the amazing news.



Erin & Ian, July 4th, 2011

Ceremony:  On the Beach

Reception: Jennette’s Pier

Photographer:  Julie Dreelin, Beach Productions

Coordinator:  Engaging Events

Caterer:  Black Pelican

Cake:  Just Desserts

Florals/Decor:  DIY Renee Landry Style

Rentals:  Ocean Atlantic Rentals

 

Photos by Beach Productions, Julie Dreelin Photography

 

 

 



Jessica & Matt, Richmond, NJ May 29, 2011

Ceremony: Marshes Lighthouse, Manteo

Reception:  Adrianna’s Restaurant

Coordinator & Photography:  11th Hour Events

Cake:  Beach Ball Events

Caterer & Bar:  Adrianna’s Restaurant

Officiant:  Frank Lassen, Beach Ball Events

Ceremony Musician: Beach Music & PA

Reception Music:  DJ Kydd Tillett, Beach Ball Events

Guest Accommodations:  First Colony Inn  & White Doe Inn

Transportation:  Island Limo

Beauty & Spa:  It’s Royalty Salon Spa & Nails

 

 

Photos by 11th Hour Events 

 



2012 Dream Wedding: Meet the Couple

Shana & Brad

The Outer Banks Wedding Association would like to introduce the 2012 Dream Wedding couple, Shana and Brad.  During the 2012 Outer Banks Wedding Weekend, Shana’s name was selected by celebrity guest, David Tutera as the Dream Wedding winner, a wedding prize package valued at $45,000.  We asked the winning couple some questions about their journey to find each other and we look forward to following them throughout their Dream Wedding.

Where are you from and where do you live now?  Shana grew up in Greensboro, NC and Brad is from Clarksville, MD.  They both reside in Bethesda, MD.

When did you first come to the Outer Banks?   Both Shana and Brad were introduced to the Outer Banks through friends.  “I first came to the Outer Banks as a child, 9 or 10 years old, while vacationing at a family friend’s home in Duck, NC,” says Brad.  More recently, Shana was introduced to the Outer Banks through her friend and bridesmaid, Kristin, whose father lives in the Outer Banks.

Why was having your wedding on the Outer Banks important to you?  “Brad and I have a mutual love of the ocean, and I knew I wanted to have our wedding at a North Carolina beach.  The Outer Banks stuck out in my mind as a new, special memory that Brad and I could make together.  There is something magical and exciting about it from the lighthouses and history, to the surfing and fishing.  We really want to be a part of that.”  “The Outer Banks is about the same distance from my hometown in Maryland as it is from Shana’s hometown in North Carolina, so it’s an ideal location,” relates Brad.

Shana, when did you first meet Brad? “We first met in 2007 while we wre both working in Knoxville, TN.  A mutual friend introduced us and it was a night of great conversation and I thought he was really attractive.  I was intrigued after my friend told me he was a really nice guy.  Pretty soon after that we fell in love.  We had dated for about 4 1/2 years before we were engaged, but it was totally worth the wait.”

Brad, do you remember the first time you saw Shana?  “A friend of mine brought Shana in tow to my apartment in Knoxville before going out for a casual night on the town.  She was very easy on the eyes and had an infectious personality.  We had great conversations that night and I remember being very attracted to her smile.  I knew immediately she was a genuine person with strong values and couldn’t wait to learn more about her.”

Futher posts will include the story of their proposal and the excitement of the Dream Wedding announcement, as we discover Shana and Brad’s story for celebrating their LOVE on the Outer Banks.



Ashley & Jacob, Richmond, VA June 25, 2011

Ceremony: On the Beach

Reception: Nags Head Golf Links

Coordinator:  Coastal Events

Photographer:  Neil GT Photography

Cake:  Great Cakes! of the Outer Banks

Caterer & Bar:  Nags Head Golf Links

Ceremony Musicians:  Club Violin

Florals/Decor:  Bells & Whistles

Rentals:  Metro Rentals & Ocean Atlantic Rentals

Photos by Neil GT Photography

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Leigh & Jerry, Raleigh, NC Sept. 24, 2011

Ceremony/Reception: Hilton Garden Inn Pier House

Photographer:  Genevieve Stewart’s Moving Art Productions

Coordinator, Caterer & Bar:  Hilton Garden Inn

Cake: Great Cakes! of the Outer Banks

Officiant: Connie Hanna

Ceremony Musicians:  Club Violin

Reception Music:  Bruce Jones “I Do” Music & DJ

Florals/Decor:  Bells & Whistles

Rentals:  Ocean Atlantic Rentals

Guest Accommodations:  Hilton Garden Inn

Beauty & Spa: Bombshells

Photos by Genevieve Stewart’s Moving Art Productions

 



2012 Pantone Color of the Year

Tangerine Tango

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Choosing a color palette is one of the first decisions a bride faces when planning her wedding. With the color being infused in everything from the obvious to the subtle, this task can prove daunting for the less than detail-oriented brides; while, on the other hand, some have known they would have pink peonies in their bouquet since the age of six. Whichever category you fall in, or if find yourself somewhere in between, many brides are considering 2012 color of the year.

Pantone, the global authority on color, has announced Tangerine Tango  as the official color of 2012. This hue has been described by Leatrice Eiseman, Executive Director of Pantone Color Institute, as “sophisticated but at the same time dramatic and seductive…an orange with a lot of depth to it.”

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While some people adore orange, others find it hard to accommodate given its tendency to be overbearing in any color scheme. However, with white taking center stage on a bride’s big day, orange has the ability to provide a much needed pop of color.

Pantone’s announcement can leave you assured of finding an array of bridesmaid dresses, the obvious way to incorporate color into the wedding, in varying shades of orange. If subtlety is more your style, try introducing this vibrant color through your accessories. Wearing an elegant, yet understated, gown? Let a dramatic orange statement piece, a la chandelier earring or cocktail ring, speak to your fun side. Already have your heart set on a spectacular show-stopping dress? Allow the typically attention grabbing hue, to take a backseat by wearing it as a simple stud earring.

Julie Dreelin, Beach Productions

Be it a summer wedding on the beach or a winter wedding where guests watch waves crash from the warmth of an indoor venue, choosing a color is an opportunity to showcase the couple’s personalities. Yes, the official Pantone color is exact. However, brides should allow for flexibility. If the wedding is in the evening, and she wants sophistication, choose a shade darker with more red. If the event will be taking place outdoors and she desires a laidback atmosphere, lean towards a coral or a brighter orange.

Whatever route the bride chooses –  the playful soon-to-be newlyweds doling out orange flip flops in their guests’ Welcome baskets; the chic trendsetter sporting orange stilettos under her white tulle; the elegant bride warming her shoulders with an orange pashmina –  this is the opportunity to add an unexpected personal touch.

As Frank Sinatra once stated, “Orange is the happiest color.” In the land of weddings, there is nothing better than seizing the opportunity to infuse the happiest color into the happiest day of the rest of your life, as you celebrate your LOVE on the Outer Banks.

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